Finding and choosing divorce lawyers can be a pretty difficult task when you're still trying to deal with the emotional shock and pain of a divorce. You may feel like you can't think straight and make an informed decision in this regard. Following the advice in this article will help you make the right choice in these tough times.
Is Money an Issue?
You may be concerned about the expenses involved in hiring a divorce lawyers. However, you have to keep in mind that there may be money changing hands in a court settlement. Think about the legal fees you're taking on in terms of the relative amount of money you may end up with if you are declared to be legally entitled to half of what your spouse owns. Even though you may clearly be entitled, the court may not see it that way if your ex hires a talented lawyer who is able to twist the facts. Remember just because a lawyer is expensive doesn't necessarily mean she's good, but good lawyers usually cost what they are worth, so don't be afraid to put the money up if there's a lot of assets at stake which you should be entitled to.
Obviously price will still have to be a big consideration for most people, so it pays to shop around a bit. Find out what the market rates are in your area and see how those lawyers who appeal to you compare in terms of rates. If two divorce lawyers both seem equally talented, educated and experienced, but one if far more affordable, it will make the decision a lot easier.
Check the Track Record
The best indicator of how good a job a potential lawyer will do for you is to look at his/her track record. Especially look at how many cases they have won compared to how many they has lost, if they have a good record of getting favorable out-of-court settlements, and how much experience they have in divorce law and cases similar to your own. There are all sorts of circumstances that can affect the outcome of a divorce case if it goes to court, so you should look for someone who has dealt in cases involving people who were similar to you.
It may help to learn some of the basics of divorce law yourself. You don't have to sign up for a university paper on it, but do a little reading online and perhaps get a couple of books from the library - but remember, divorce laws differ from country to country and state to state, so make sure you read information that applies to your location.
Do You Get Along Personally?
This may not seem like such a big issue, but it's important. You will be working closely with your lawyer for an indefinite period of time on an issue that can have major consequences that will affect the rest of your life. It's important that you choose someone who you trust and feel a personal rapport with.
Mediation
If possible, try to create a situation where you and your ex work through one lawyer who you both trust, as a mediator. This is much more affordable than each hiring a lawyer to duke it out. A mediator can help you resolve issues of ownership, custody and alimony while saving a lot of the scarring damage that can result from a court battle. Many divorced couples who otherwise may have learned to be friends again have lost any hope of reconciliation in the ugliness of a court battle.
Obviously price will still have to be a big consideration for most people, so it pays to shop around a bit. Find out what the market rates are in your area and see how those lawyers who appeal to you compare in terms of rates. If two divorce lawyers both seem equally talented, educated and experienced, but one if far more affordable, it will make the decision a lot easier.
Do You Get Along Personally?